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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=TheManWithAUsername]I don't get the point. Women have it worse than men? Duh.

I think I would have started with physical weakness, bleeding genitals, hormonal fluctuations, and the burdens of pregnancy and breastfeeding.
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To the people who think it's sad that some SAHMs think they're lucky...Jesus - could you be more bigoted?[/b][/quote]

I wouldn't say bigoted, as in intolerant, but I would certainly say that for many SAHMs on DCUM, the decision to SAH came about because they were unable to find a way to negotiate a working situation that accommodated young children. It was difficult to secure part-time work or to transition back to the office as if nothing had changed. They are now utterly financial dependent upon their partners, who hopefully, but may not always have their best interests in mind. They have given up the promise of education, both college and graduate, from some of the most selective schools in the country and given up a decade or more of professional experience to be at home with young children, cook, and clean.

I'm not saying that being at home with kids isn't deeply satisfying, but I would hardly describe the process as "lucky." Lucky, perhaps, to be married--at the moment--to someone who can support such a lifestyle, but certainly not fortunate to have to give so much up, including one's independence and one's identity outside the home. [/quote]

as a dad, I would LOVE to be able to stay at home.  There is a reason they call it "WORK", because it SUCKS.  Not everyone is career obsessed.  And talk about female privilege.  Do you realize the stress that men are under in this economy?  To be the breadwinner when so many traditional male jobs are disappearing.  It is soulcrushing.[/quote]

It's only soulcreushing if you don't like to wor.[/quote]

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