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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a sister who is 8 years younger than me. She is cute but often compares herself to the way I look and wonders why she doesn’t look as conventionally beautiful. Thing is, she doesn’t know that I had work done on my face (she was young when I got it done and parents are dead so no one there to tell her how different I look). I’ve been deflecting and telling her she is gorgeous and will grow into her looks like I did, but I wonder if this is unfair to her. I really don’t want to tell her about the work done though because she is not good at keeping a secret. But I also care a lot about her and don’t want her to think of herself as the less attractive sister. How should I deal with this? [/quote]

You are straight up lying--you didn't "grow into" anything. You bought and paid for your looks. Too bad you didn't buy some character...[/quote]

Really?  We all pay for our looks.  My lips look luscious and kissable because of the lipstick I buy and use.  My hair looks soft and shiny because of the conditioner I buy and use.  My thighs look tight and taut because of the treadmill we bought and installed in the basement.  I haven't had any cosmetic surgery but I have no quibbles with someone who has.  It isn't about "character."[/quote]

Please stop. Not the same and you know it, PP. The OP said she had "work done" on her face--that does not sound like she just bought a new shade of lipstick :roll: [/quote]

Lipstick or botox or nose job all equal the same thing to me.  There is no difference and you're deluding yourself if you believe there is.[/quote]

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