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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell her. What’s wrong with you?[/quote] Exactly! What in the f#ck is wrong with you, OP?? It seems that your ego is more important to you than your sister's mental health, confidence and self esteem is. Omf, what is wrong with you, OP?? :x JUST TELL HER! Who. Cares. If. She. Tells. Anyone.??? If you're over the age of 30, you really shouldn't give a sh!t about what other people think & you definitely shouldn't care about who knows, period. The fact of the matter is, plastic surgery made you feel better about yourself, it raised your self esteem and gave you greater confidence, and guess what? There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with it and there's no shame in it. Whatever makes you feel better about yourself is totslly fine by me... and you know what? It's totally fine with the millions of other people that understand this too! It's extremly immature and irrational of you to STILL worry about who knows about this and who doesn't. We're in the middle of a pandemic here, don't you have bigger sh!t to worry about than who's "potentially" judging you? Why would you waste even a millisecond of your life worrying about something as inconsequential as who knows you've had plastic surgery done?? I guarantee you that nobody will care what you've had done (with the one exception to that being your sister, of course) because worrying about such silly nonsense is extremly immature & shallow. Personally, I feel the greater offense is that you've been lying to her all these years You've repeatedly told her not to worry, because she too will grow into her looks... just like you did. The problem with that sentiment is that it's a LIE. You've repeatedly fed her this delusion & continued to fill her head with lies, knowing all along that there's was absolutely a ZERO chance in hell that this could happen to her, because it never even happened to you! Why would you set her up for such a big disappointment? Why would you keep a lie going for so long? Is your ego so fragile that you'd resort to lying, (therefore risking her self esteem & self confidence in the process) just so you wouldn't have to fess up that you're not the natural beauty she thinks you are? Sounds a bit narcissistic. Stop making this about you OP, it's about your sister! I know this will be difficult, but maybe try thinking about what's best for her for a change and not what's best for you... tell her the TRUTH. Just apologize profusely for being dishonest with her for so long, and then... offer to pay for those same procedures that you had for her! You owe it to her. I imagine that she won't be upset with you for lying, IF she knows that she'll end up looking like you AND that you're paying for it, as well. [/quote] [b]Holy post, Batman.[/b] You seem strangely invested in this. [/quote] I use this phrase as well. Funny to read it from someone else. And I agree, that PP is nuts.[/quote]
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