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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't have to tell her about her plastic surgery. You DO have to tell her that there will ALWAYS be someone prettier than she is, and uglier than she is. There'll always be someone richer and someone more poor, someone smarter and someone dumber. And she needs to work on her own self esteem to: value herself more than just how she looks, and to stop comparing herself to others.[/quote] +1 EXACTLY[/quote] Except that I don't think OP is the right messenger. Someone who had cosmetic surgery is not really in a position to be lecturing others about valuing themselves just as they are, accepting that others are prettier, having good self-esteem, etc. At a minimum, stop lying to her about how you "grew into" your looks. If she's in her 20s or 30s, that isn't going to happen anyway, but it's worse that you are lying. If you won't tell her that you had work done, just stop talking to her about this. [/quote]
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