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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your spouse finds out...and it's not uncommon for it to be discovered years after the fact.  Remorseful AP or spouse of AP finds out and tells---it would result in divorce most definitely because you kept it buried.

If you come clean, it will be difficult for awhile, but ultimately it will allow for the marriage to repair.  It will not repair with secrets.  And, your spouse will eventually be able to work to trust.  But, yeah, if they find out prior to you disclosing--that is BAD news.[/quote]

OP here, why are you so sure if I disclose it can be worked out.  Most people on here respond that if their spouse cheated, they would be gone and counsel others to do the same.

And if something comes to light say a year or two from now, isnt it easier to deal with for my spouse if it's then like 4 or 5 years in the past?  As opposed to more recent?  Seems like the more time that goes by the easier it would be to process if I have been faithful for the years in between which I have been[/quote]

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