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[quote=Anonymous]There are some bad therapists out there. My spouse started seeing one without my knowledge because of his affair. He was spiraling out of control because of weight of deception/double life and other married AP starting to ask for more/mentioning leaving her husband. The therapist never made him confront the affair. Not once. She was awful and even when he decided to tell me everything she kept saying- don’t give a name, don’t tell details....all the EXACT opposite things every authority on affairs/infidelities advocates. I have seen copies of therapist emails and I wanted her license taken away. I also spoke to her myself when he signed a waiver (she was also against) to allow her to disclose to me details of sessions. Fired her and he is doing fantastic with two new therapists, that both immediately identified his childhood trauma and mental illness. She never even tested him or formally diagnosed.[/quote]
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