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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're describing a good long- term marriage. Friends/ business partners with benefits.

Marriage is not dating, and long- term marriage is not newly married. Stop looking to those acts/entities as guides. 
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Agree with this...and it's my marriage....but....

Then why is cheating so devastating?  I mean, my only shot at having a night or two of hot sex and passion again before I die is to cheat or divorce.  Can't I get one good last romp in and why can't the betrayed spouse see it is something as simple as that and not a reflection of the entire marriage?[/quote]

Idiots like you have it made, most wish they could be in your shoes yet you'd throw it all away over a loser whose willing to cheat with a married person. You need to upgrade your character and morals, that's the real issue.[/quote]

Agree.  So the wives are supposed to feel sorry for the woman who has a shitty relationship with her spouse.  We are supposed to be magnanimous and let her partake of our hot husband.  Okay...sure thing, loser.  All the OW has to offer is that she’s “different”.  My ex didn’t even do 69 or all the other kinky stuff we did throughout our marriage.  [/quote]

PP you are responding to.  Yikes, most of the reason I had an affair was to do all the things my wife refused.  But anyway, its water under the bridge now, seemed necessary at the time but in hindsight when not thinking with my little brain, not worth it.[/quote]

NP.  No, cheating isn't just an act, it's cheating which means it's also about trust and respect and so a reflection on marriage?  If you wanted sex with someone else, you should have divorced your wife first.  Your mindset still sucks BTW.  You do know you're an a-hole right?[/quote]

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