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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who are you "his body, his choice ninnies!"  ninnies/  She is not holding him down forcing him to have a vasectomy.

Anyway, OP,   I too would be annoyed, that he has decided to abdicate his responsibility in preventing pregnancy, and wants to leave it all to you.

I'd tell him he's now responsible for birth control he has several viable options. You are officially taking that off your list of responsibilities.

No sex until that's resolved.[/quote]

I’m a woman who really enjoys sex and doesn’t want any more kids.  So I make the decision for myself. I protect myself from unwanted children.

Every adult gets to make their own choices, including spouses and sexual partners.

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You liking sex, and screaming by body my choice/his choice literally has zero to do with the discussion.

OP is not forcing her husband to get a vasectomy  ( she literally cannot do that), she is requring him to take on responsibility in the area of birth control. Since you are a liberated woman, and clearly believe in equal rights for men and women, please explain why her husband  or any husband should not be required to be responsible for birth control, vasectomy is not the only option?[/quote]

I don’t know her husband or his reasonings. But if my husband said, let’s use condoms each time, well that doesn’t work for me. I would get (and have gotten both) an IUD or tubal (if looking for permanent).

Maybe he wants more kids. Maybe he’s just a shit husband.

I simply know controlling my own body and future is important to me.  [/quote]

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