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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be very curious about how he envisions his future: group living with spouse? I wouldn’t move in. From the way you describe him and yourself, it’s hard to see you guys as compatible in the long term, regardless of living arrangement. You sound like more of a homebody or maybe just typical, with a preference for normal privacy and he sounds unusually...social? restless? Unconventional? Not sure if the word but he doesn’t seem like a guy looking for nuclear family/marriage. [/quote]

+1. His lifestyle right now isn't conducive to getting married and starting a family. Honestly, this set up sounds a little immature. I knew lots of people/couples in early to mid 20's doing this in a rental, but it's really unconventional for people in their 30's to do this, especially with a married couple.

OP, you're overdue for a discussion regarding what you both want your futures to look like. Figure that out now - don't waste your fertility on someone you might not be compatible with. You've dated for over a year and you're 32. Figure that out now.[/quote]

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