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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no way in hell I would move into his group house.

But I wouldn’t be in this situation to begin with because I wouldn’t date a 32 year old who has roommates.

Sounds like you guys don’t communicate well.

I have moved in with a boyfriend twice in the past and honestly I think it’s a bad idea if you aren’t engaged. It can lead to relationship intertia, like not getting engaged or not breaking up because the idea of moving is daunting.

It doesn’t mean you are set in your ways because you don’t want to move into a group house with your boyfriend. It means you  are smart. Tell him you’d rather live separately until you are engaged, and when you are engaged and married, you want to live with just him.

Do you think he would expect you to live in a group house as a married couple? For most women that would be a hard no.[/quote]

Yup. I also lived with a boyfriend in my twenties, and once I got out of that relationship I vowed never to do it again. My now-husband tried to get me to move into a group house situation with him twice before we were married, now that I think about it! I didn't do it. Once we got engaged, we bought a house together that made total sense for us. now even he laughs about his group house-girlfriend dreams. What is with men?[/quote]

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