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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Understand that every trait, including the ones you admire, can have a "negative" side. I admired my now DH's passion for justice but didn't realize that meant he has a very strong sense of right/wrong in all areas (low tolerance threshold). DH liked that I had a more relaxed personality, but now gets frustrated that I don't care as much about a neat house. [/quote] The adage that ‘opposites attract’ is true, especially when you're young. The problem is that as the marriage progresses, the differences become annoyances and each of you try to get their partner to be more like them. [/quote] It's tricky because I do think marrying your complement is a great idea and valuable for a prospective partner in raising children. I think there will always be annoyances over time regardless so making sure there are some fundamentals in common is also vital.[/quote]
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