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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I did date one woman briefly and found myself just not really enjoying it or feeling "ready." I think I did it because I thought it was something I was supposed to do. But then it became clear she wanted to move her and her daughter in with me and my kids, and I finally drew a line and told her no one was ever moving in, certainly not before both my kids were in college.[/quote]

Glad you held the line. I have the same view that cohabitating (especially with a woman who has her own kids) is probably a bad idea.

Was she lower income / SES than you, was that what was driving it? She would upgrade from her townhouse to your SFH? Was she offering to pay half the mortgage?[/quote]

Yes she was much lower income. High school graduate. Got screwed by her ex in her divorce years ago but also never fought for what she was legally owed. She had been cohabitating with a previous boyfriend and then in a townhouse she couldn’t afford on her own.

She was a good person. Just needed more than I could give.[/quote]

If you do date, please be upfront about your feelings on this. Even tell this story in a non negative way, to I,lustration what it is you want. Don’t waste women’s time.[/quote]

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