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[quote=Anonymous]We were that house when my kids were under 10. Then we moved (they're teens). We had a small townhouse with a postage-stamp-sized backyard, so it wasn't the amenities. I simply welcomed them, and offered a few snacks and drinks (not an unlimited kitchen, though). Looking back, I mostly spoke to them like people and riffed off their interests. Oh, you like Minecraft? Have you run into Enderman yet? Have you built a castle? Get them talking about it, talk on their level. Put out the box of Legos. Follow their lead. Kids will want to do what they don't get to do at home. Oh, you want to watch Spongebob? Okay. It's a balance between being in charge and allowing kids to have some fun. For most moms, it isn't easy to meet kids on their level while maintaining authority over the situation. [/quote]
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