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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t get why the trip is an issue. He’s already met the kids so if he is a molester he can do that at home. I guess you can argue about traveling during a pandemic, but plenty of people are doing that. Why does the trip make the difference? And certainly concerns that’s he is a new citizen so won’t behave in the US are pretty ridiculous. I don’t think there’s anything you can do at this point. It’s too late to get something in writing - why would she agree to that now?[/quote]

If Dad wanted to do it with his new girlfriend of the month would you be ok with that?[/quote]
Oh, I think it’s terrible parenting. But OP cannot do anything about it, unfortunately. You people suggesting he talk to his lawyer or just refuse don’t understand how divorce works. There’s no suggestion of anything dangerous, OP has no evidence of anything illegal...OP is correct that calling the lawyer will turn things ugly and there will be no upside because he has no right to stop it. This is a downside of divorce and one of the reasons people stay married for the kids.[/quote]

Op here, I understand there is no suggestion of anything but there but my ex has a pattern of doing wat she wants and completely disregarding safety of children. She had a bad fight(domestic violence) with her sister at her house, missing kids doctors appointments, making my daughter watch ph-13+ vulgar hip hop videos, a few small physical abuse like pinching the son during the church service, issues with her previous bf, etc. after all this, I just don’t trust Her that she has our kids interest in mind as the first thing. [/quote]

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