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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a new therapist. Do not contact this guy - you will not get the closure you are looking for. He got married and had kids on the timeline that he was upfront with you about, and that makes you unhappy. Also, you probably didn’t break up because of your behavior that he wasn’t paying attention to 100s or 1000s of miles away. You broke up because that’s generally what happens in LDRs. I think you are living in an alternate fantasy world where you think that somehow you guys would have ended up together “if only”. He just wasn’t that into you, and he was never going to marry you.

I think it’s really sad that a marriage and LIVE CHILDREN later, an abortion is THE defining event in your life.

Please, please get some help.[/quote]

This is the OP. I meant defining as in permanently breaking me (or at least that is how I feel). Prior to that, I had challenges due to my early family life but I was overcoming them and  attending an elite institution of higher learning, and looking forward to the future. I remember thinking that my life was over afterwards. I've built a lot back up and there is a lot to make me happy and proud both professionally and personally. But I do fantasize about the what ifs and often feel very removed, like an onlooker in my own life. I do realize that I need help. [/quote]

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