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[quote=Anonymous]Another vehement NO for reaching out to the boyfriend. Please get help. You do not sound okay, and you need to move past this and get on with your life. I read your post several times because it sounded so much like someone I know - she has nurtured the trauma of an abortion/bad boyfriend for more than 20 years and let it consume her life until she is now a full-blown unemployed alcoholic in her late 40s. It is so sad that this has been allowed to fester until it has literally ruined her life and health. As a wise person posted upthread- the boyfriend knew you were on the pill and also used condoms and obviously did not want a child at that stage in his life. As the woman, the decision was yours to make and there is no way to know how things might have turned out differently or better. Please get the help and tools you need to move on. [/quote]
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