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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. [b]They don’t have a relationship with my kids even though we live close by.[/b] That’s what really hurts. Not interested because they can’t relate. They have a close relationship with the others bc they babysat when we paid for childcare. They don’t like schedules so could never make time to see my kids in between their activities and schoolwork. [b]Pretty soon I stopped inviting them to games and concerts and ceremonies. [/b]My kids did work regular jobs too. One time my kid was working in a mall and MIL stops by the store to say I’m only here because I had to drop by the Apple store and then proceeded to talk 15 minutes about how great my kids’ cousin was doing because he could afford to move out after getting a job at a restaurant. MIL has no idea that my kids were doing those jobs at a younger age and one started own business and made enough to pay for a year of college. So it’s not only the obscure accomplishments, but even the regular things like getting a job at 15 or starting a business.[/quote]

Did you know that some families develop relationships almost entirely over meals and holiday gatherings?

I can't think of one ceremony, concert, or game that the grandparents or aunts and uncles of my kids came to, from either my side or my husband's. They still have relationships. They're just not applause-based.[/quote]

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