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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll be honest - if you have kids in their teens and you get them 50% of the time, that's going to be a big hurdle in dating.

That means every other week you are essentially not available.  That may work for some women, especially if they have kids and can coordinate off weeks with yours.  Others whose kids are older may not like being restricted to every other week activity.  And if you think you will just introduce everyone (her, kids) and make it all one big happy family, think again.

Teens are notorious for not liking parents' new partners, including after a long dating period before they are even introduced.  It's just a very difficult time in life for them.  Girls may have jealousy issues against your partner, and loyalty binds for their mom which can be problematic.

You also sound like you are in the military or in a military-related field.  This may appeal to some women and to others not so much. Especially if you are active duty and the potential for change of station orders comes up.  [/quote]

I'm divorced and do not see that as a hurdle at all. Most women who are divorced with kids with 50/50 aren't expecting full-blown relationships like they did before kids. They are busy, too. This makes me wonder if whoever posted this above is married...this sounds like something a married person would say... not a divorced woman.[/quote]

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