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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]@20:42,
I was describing from the point of view of my kids, with which I empathize because I am a child of divorce myself. Divorce was something that was done *to them* - inflicted on them - they had no power over what happened. If I moved in stepkids and now my kids had to share bedrooms and the bathroom, it would be just the same. *Done to them* and they didn't get to say no. They'd have a right to be angry at me for it.

As for the timeline, I was the one who wanted it in the agreement. I am not worried about stepmoms meeting my kids, I am worried about strange men being around my kids, and I wanted that put off as long as possible. It is in my interest to abide by it so that I can make sure XW keeps boyfriends away from our kids for the required duration, which I would absolutely go to court to do if I had to.[/quote]

You sound very controlling towards your ex wife. Turn off for me. [/quote]

The agreement works the same way for both of us. We both have to date someone for a lengthy period before introducing that person to the kids. I am as controlled by it as she is.[/quote]

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