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[quote=Anonymous]Not entirely the same situation but I found out in my 30s that I was the product of a sperm donor. I do belong to several online communities involving people who discover their father is not their biological father. I have about a dozen half-siblings that I’m aware of. Some I’m very close with and some I don’t have a relationship with. The general consensus is to reach out to your sibling, not the mom. You’re both adults, and they have the right to this information and what to do with it. Don’t put any pressure on your sibling to respond, and be prepared for them not to. I’m a big believer that the truth deserves to be told, and it’s certainly possible that your sibling knows their dad isn’t their dad, but it’s also worth considering doing nothing. If they’re unaware, I can say from personal experience that this will put them through an emotional roller coaster. [/quote]
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