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[quote=Anonymous]Marriage is such an important relationship that people expect a lot from it but most are willing to give and take to make the other person happy. I know for my husband and I we need some space apart. The time apart makes the time together even better than it would have been otherwise. What you are going through is a part of the relationship. Communication is the key. Have you discussed this with your DH?

If not it is time. Marriage partners deserve honesty, respect, kindness and unconditional love. If you are lonely, talk to DH about it. Share and find a solution that will make each of you feel comfortable. There are no standards for this, it is dependent on the individuals. There are no timetables, there are no instructions for time together. So it is something you will just have to work out together.

I am praying that your DH will listen and that you will listen to him as you work through this. I pray for mutual consideration. I pray that you will find the fullness of all God intended for your relationship. I pray for blessings. The best is yet to come but this probably won[t be the last give/take situation you have in the wonderful relationship called marriage. A marriage relationship should be a continual process;, continual growing, continual sharing and continual blessing. Go for it. Two very helpful books are Boundaries and Ready to Wed (yes it does help even after the ceremony takes place). Reading them can bring great insight into the challenges of marriage and the blessings.[/quote]

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