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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ good luck, please come back with updates. You guys are both foreigners?[/quote]

Yes, we are both from same country. He moved to the US 36 years ago, so he’s more American now I guess.  
Our day today: played tennis together, then we were hanging out in the backyard. He was asking if I want to have improvements
in the garden done (long term improvements), what I thought of planting flowers here or there, having a hammock or Zipline added. 
He wants to do Zipline in his garden himself (never thought of him being so adventurous). 
Watched a movie. I excused myself first referring to bad plot, didn’t want to watch him going to basement. He said rather officially good night as I walked upstairs.

It’s almost like he’s punishing me for something with avoiding me as a woman, but still considers his wife. I don’t know what I’ve done 
wrong: yes, I allowed myself to be too busy with our son who has Aspergers; allowed to be too busy with our joint business taking 
night calls and sometimes not noticing that he already went to bed, forgot when he stopped bringing me jewelry from his trips....
Our son is a good swimmer, and I had a crazy schedule with 4am wake ups for 4 years in a row. He was always irritated by these
am workouts, because he traveled a lot and was drained at work, needed sleep.

I am not still certain it’s a mistress or his mid age crisis, or my missteps, or just overall exhaustion with family life. We’ve come through a lot 
with our son, and thankfully he’s now almost “normal”.

But what I found in corporate documents and the timeline of the lady being hired to lead practice, her getting shares in his Luxembourg trust 
coincide with his change of attitude to me. I am attractive. But that lady on his board is just stunning, looks like Sharon Stone. [b]I don’t understand 
how a woman that spectacular attractive would wait for him to divorce since 2012[/b]... I think she is waiting to cash out her states and doesn’t need him. [/quote]

Money, OP. Money.  Women are starving for money.  Just read half the threads around here and see how women act in this area - it is all about the money. She either knows he has a lot, or thinks he has more than he does.  [/quote]he has aspergers too, just like your son.  He’s probably a total idiot outside of his office work.  I’m surprised he asked about the yard, does he really care about that stuff? [/quote]

He is a very difficult person to leave with. He is really into designing his backyard, constantly improving it, it gives him sense of peace.  He was married once before meeting me, his first wife was American. She left him after 5 years of marriage. He always complained how self-centered she was, not able to take care of the house, do her own laundry, only caring about her career, partying with girlfriends etc. 
I am just the opposite - self-sacrificing, taking a good care of him, yet he sold me for his bright financial future with his mistress in Europe. His mistress will be his THIRD wife?? Isn't it crazy? [/quote]

Surely now you're getting a glimpse of why his first wife really left? Stop thinking if you just do ABC or XYZ then he'll see what a great wife you are and fall back in love with you. He's manipulating you and has you spinning on a hampster wheel desperately trying to get to a place you'll never get to.[/quote]

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