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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When a wife does not want sex, it is rejection. She could be the wittiest person around, funny as can be, emotionally giving, etc., but no sex means rejection.[/quote]

And when a man can’t get it up, it is rejection. He could be the wittiest person around, funny as can be, emotionally giving, etc., but you said it yourself- no sex means rejection. [/quote]

This is a false equivalency.  If a man can't get it up, there may be a medical condition, just like there may be a medical condition when a wife does not desire sex.  Any decent person would understand and work through a medical condition.

But that's not what we're talking about here ...[/quote]

A lot of women do feel rejected when their husband’s experience ED.  But please, continue this narrative that only your feelings and your perspective are valid, even when your wife feels exactly the same way that you do when the tables are turned.  [/quote]

The women feel rejected for the wrong reason ("DH thinks I am unattractive") rather than "he has some psychological or physical issue" - which can probably be fixed.[/quote]

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