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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She's stressed.

And while you think you're being subtle, I'm 100% sure that your "disgust" of her is obvious to her. Which doesn't help.

You need to reduce her stress. What SHE is stressed about, not what YOU think she should be stressed about. Especially about crap like inlaws that guys can be oblivious about. Guys have a way of putting stress onto women and then blaming them for being stressed.[/quote]

Look, here's the thing.  She may be stressed.  She may be depressed.  She may be any number of other things.  But SHE IS IN CHARGE OF HER.  Not OP.  Not his inlaws.  No one is responsible for the wellbeing of another adult, unless they are chained in the basement.  If she's depressed, it's on her to become un-depressed by whatever means.  Seek treatment. Go to the doctor. Something! I hate it when grown women blame other people for what is happening to them. [/quote]

It’s not clear that she thinks she needs to change anything. OP is the one who wants things to change and needs to communicate with her. [/quote]

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