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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could be your wife OP.   I have put on 40 lbs and it’s due to emotional eating.  [b]Depression and anxiety.[/b]  What’s the state of your marriage?  If we were to talk to your wife, how would she rate you as a husband?

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+1. The alcohol is a big red flag to me - is she drinking excessively? Does she need help stopping? How is her emotional/mental health? Does she need therapy? This pandemic is wreaking havoc on people, so now is probably not the time (and I've been working out more, but I hate working out with my partner because he's in MUCH better shape than I am and its hard to be motivated - I'd rather do it on my own) to bring this up in conversation unless its solely centered around her mental and physical health, and support for helping her get what she needs to get healthier.[/quote]
Cutting out the alcohol will probably help her lose 5lbs, at least.

Try to be really sweet to her first for a while, then sweetly tell her "let's go have some adult time" and take her for a walk.[/quote]

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