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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you’ve received some good advice here regarding whether you really want to procreate with this man. I get it, you probably think the pickins are slim as a single mom. But you need to get a solid prenup in place to protect your own offspring. You can make a new family with this man, but the odds are very high that this will end in divorce. As for furniture, your kid who is with you full time gets her own room. Too much potential for conflict if you make her share with a step sibling who is only there occasionally. Put the step kids in a room with something like this: https://www.pbteen.com/m/products/store-it-corner-bed-media-hutch-set-2/?cm_cat=Google&sku=8606341&catalogId=21&cm_ite=8606341&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIiPKS2cmp6QIVVODICh3nqgiCEAQYAiABEgLin_D_BwE&cm_ven=PLA&cm_pla=Furniture%20%3e%20Beds%20%26%20Headboards For the bonus room, put in a Queen futon with a quality innerspring mattress. It can serve as a couch and your primary guest space. If you end up needing a nursery, you’ll have to think long and hard about what goes. Maybe the baby shacks up with you until it’s old enough to move in with your daughter. No great options with 4 kids in a 3 bedroom. [/quote] OP, You sound like a very nice lady and very considerate of your fiances daughters. I'm sure you will be very welcoming to them. Agree with PP, since you brought the assets to the relationship and seem to have all of the money I would consult with a lawyer and get a prenup prior to marriage to protect you and your daughter. Sorry about the loss of your former husband. It is tough to be a young widow with a child.[/quote]
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