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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be ok doing it now.

But will wait until the June 10th order is lifted[/quote]

+1. Would do an outdoor playdate now if I knew any friends that also wanted to. [/quote]

We’ve been doing outdoor play dates with our next door neighbors. Everyone is working from home with kids at home + wearing masks to the grocery store. I don’t post about it on Facebook or anything stupid because I don’t want comments. But we are complying with the order to limit gatherings to under 10 people and I figure it’s better to do a (relatively) low risk get together to keep our social distancing endurance up rather than strict isolation and burning out. Sort of like how people always fall off of strict diets.

Also, the funny thing is friends of mine who have been really judgy (over social media or text chains) about play dates or neighbor get togethers are the ones having their local parents/in-laws over to help with the kids. Neither we, nor our next door neighbors, have any family help. So occasionally letting our kids run around together outside basically is our “help” to get a break from our really young kids.

I think everyone should be doing the best they can to comply with doing what they need to survive and not judging others unless it’s something blatantly stupid like throwing a house party.[/quote]

This seems really reasonable to me. I thought I had a similar agreement with a nearby family, but then one day the parent starts telling me they were at someone else's house earlier that morning, and oh on the way home they stopped to get coffee and browse target, so then I was like, OH we can't hang out near you anymore, bye. But if both families have the same risk tolerance and trust each other, I agree with something low risk to keep this sustainable.[/quote]

We were about to do something similar with another family who claimed they were fully isolating and then realized that our definitions of that were quite different. [/quote]

+++ I don't know that other families are self-isolating to the degree our family is. If another family was, I would undoubtedly join pods together. But no one we know is being as careful as we are; I know in part because we're having to be that careful because of our high-risk status.

But this is also why friends of mine are like, "I don't know how I got COVID, I've been quarantined..."[/quote]

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