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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Alright. Not welcome. Got it. I feel the way I feel, and I’ve been trying to get help for myself and my kid for YEARS. It’s been round and round and round and no one has EVER until now thought that my child’s issues were anything other than shitty parenting. Guess they’re all right. I still hate autism - my kid definitely has it but diagnosis takes FOREVER once you have a direction, and I hate that my kid has it. Why? Because parenting him is HELL and always has been. Why? BECAUSE NO ONE BELIEVES HE HAS ISSUES. Because they all think it’s “inconsistent parenting” or “because Mom isn’t married” or “because mom sucks at parenting”. I’ve been trying to get someone to listen to me about this kid FOR YEARS. Since he was 2 or 3. But no, I was you g when I had him so I’m a terrible mom.

I’ll find support somewhere else. [/quote]

No surprise your son has issues after reading your posts. How would you act if your mom said she hated a core part of your identity? I'd probably try to hide in screens all day, too.[/quote]

This is so uncalled for.  I hate this type of reasoning.   I'm sure she wouldn't be angry and overwhelmed if her child wasn't violent and a behavior problem, right?   Maybe, just maybe, it is the other way around and she's angry and exhausted BECAUSE of the issues she is having with her child?   couldn't that be that case?  No, blame her reaction for what happened for something that happened before she reacted this way.  I hate this type of thinking.    Oh...and I think it's just fine to hate autism since without it your child would still be your wonderful child that you love in every way but without the behavioral/medical/emotional/academic problems.      Your child isn't autism.  the autism is just a part of your child that any sane person would wish away if it's causing problem.    go ahead and flame away.

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No, your child would not still be that wonderful child that you love in every way without their autism. Their autism is literally how their brain works. They would be a completely different person. Autism is not a disease. The more you think and act like autism is some evil thing that happened to your child, the less progress your child will make. If you learn to accept them and figure out what works for them rather than continue failing to make them fit into some image you had of a child, you'll be much more successful. Or you can continue to temper tantrum about hating autism and then wonder why your kid hates you.[/quote]

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