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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I just don't get it. I don't understand how any parent can choose to do nothing at all over the course of a school year. I don't care how financially strapped or busy (a lot of these parents are well resourced) - if you chose to parent you should make time for some school related duties in your life. If every parent did ONE thing, the same ten parents wouldn't do everything. They do it out of a sense of responsibility, not because they magically have 'more time'. It's kind of like shoveling your elderly neighbor's car out; you just do it b/cause it's the right thing to do.[/quote]

Of course you don't understand.  You can't see beyond your own experiences.  People like you are like a repellant.   You DO have more time, you DO have more resources than others and to expect anyone to operate as you think they should is bullshit.  We have a lot of ESL and FARM kids at our school whose parents are doing the best they can.  They have the same aspirations for their kids as we do.  How dare you think you understand what it's like to work two or three jobs trying to make ends meet, have unstable housing and limited English proficiency?  Even someone like me has challenges you can't imagine.  Two of my three kids have special needs.  DH and both WOH.  We have 3-5 therapy appointments every week.  Insurance doesn't pay shit and we have no family around that is capable of helping us in any way.  In fact, my FIL is a home bound invalid, paralyzed on the left side from a stroke and suffering from dementia.  My MIL died 4 years ago and DH is an only child. How dare you think you're just as strapped for time and money as I am.  You're not.  We do make time for school related activities - my kids are clean, dressed appropriately, get to school on time, eat breakfast, do their homework, we attend school events and are in frequently communication with the school and teachers.  Volunteer at whatever level you're comfortable but don't presume to think I should give PTA any of my time.

If PTA is where you want to focus your energy on PTA because you think it's worthwhile, goody for you.  Just don't expect others to make the same choice and don't play the martyr. [/quote]

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