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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not one of the DCUMers who are constantly advocating divorce. I am a firm believer that marriage is a compromise and both parties have to work to make any marriage good and healthy. That said, it doesn't sound like your DH will ever compromise on anything, and this is just a sign of what is to come in a whole assortment of issues.

I think you need to ask yourself how you feel about the longterm chances for your marriage surviving. Do you want to stay married to him, given that is personality likely won't change? If you did divorce, can you support yourself and the kids? I suspect he would make divorce a nightmare.

If you do love him and do want to stay married to him, then I don't see how you keep the ILs away. And then you might very well be facing them living with you even longer term.

[b]Your husband clearly has a stronger bond to his parents than his own children and uses unreasonableness to get his way. Guilting you over his parents' potential death due to their own irresponsible behavior, at the risk of your own family, is not a psychologically healthy man, IMO.[/quote][/b]

This. You are married to a man-child who does not respect you. Sorry.[/quote]

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