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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am curious about the posters saying they are letting their kids play with neighbors' kids for their "mental health". Do you really think your kids would suffer that much having to hang out with their parents? Even if you are tied up with work a lot of the day? I am finding that hard to believe in light of what we know about actual traumatic stressors that affect children. I think the parents allowing this are doing this to make their own lives easier but telling themselves it's for the sake of the kids.

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I agree that this is more about the parents than the kids, and they're using their kids as an excuse.

People are still going to the grocery store, picking up food, ordering packages... so while I get the idea that you *think* you're keeping the circle small... it's a facade. And a profoundly selfish, stupid thing to do.

Come up with other plans. I know people are frustrated, but so is everyone. Doesn't mean you have to stay locked indoors all day every day, but enact a little discipline. [/quote]

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THIS!

I have some acquaintances who are doing this stuff and I don't think I'll ever fully respect them again.  Their stupidity knows no bounds.[/quote]

You need some help. You’re not going to “forgive” people who are having packages delivered? I just had my sons essential life supporting medicine delivered. You wouldn’t know what that was nor should you. But the idea that You’re out there deciding that’s wrong is... insane. Get some help. [/quote]

The point was that people are having playdates with others saying that both families are completely isolated...but no one is completely isolated! People are still grocery shopping, receiving packages, getting takeout, running into work every now and then etc. The playdates are the "stuff" the poster was writing about. No one is judging you for receiving packages![/quote]

None of my friends are "running into work"

I think 1 family member getting groceries once a week and deliveries are low risk.
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Low risk to YOU. Not low risk to the person doing the delivery. [/quote]

They are at higher risk of being affected by poverty because crazy people like you won't order take out than COVID-19.[/quote]

You are quoting me.  I don't do grocery delivery because it's hard to get here and I leave the slots for people who are higher risk than me.  We go grocery shopping once a week, and I do takeout once a week.  I feel comfortable with that.  I also don't flip out when I see other people talking to each other.  My point is - people are judging kids playing outdoors when they themselves are probably causing just as many people to come in contact with other humans when they shop online - so really they are no better, and they should not judge other people.  That's my opinion.[/quote]

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