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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your next conversation with your wife needs to begin with "We have hit rock bottom. We have low income, no assets, no savings, and crippling debt. It needs to stop today or we will be on the streets by in three months." If you cannot say those words to her and take control of the finances, then you can't possibly move forward. [/quote] This is the rational, logical thing to do. I've tried lesser variations of it with no success in the past. Shame on me. I always get some variation of have faith/we'll manage/we'll figure it out and for some reason I'm always persuaded. Or maybe it's conflict avoidance. At this point I hardly know myself anymore. She has an explosive temper and Iv'e just started to shrink away from anything resembling a confrontation - in most cases. Sometimes I still find a little resistance inside and push back, but nothing ever changes. [/quote]
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