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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, your DH is not being a good husband or dad. He is purposefully avoiding family time because he can’t deal. This is why the breadwinner-SAHP dynamic sucks. The breadwinner often feels emboldened to avoid home life because he can use “work” as an excuse and the SAHP has to deal.[/quote] Truth! This is why I think OP brought it on herself having all these kids and expecting DH to be hands-on too. The martyrdom in the OP definitely reeks of victim mentality. If I overheard my spouse complaining about me to a friend, I would be pissed too. That s/he didn't have the guts to address the problem directly with me but is talking crap about me to a 'friend'. Sounds like a great partner...not![/quote] Wow. So, now being a SAHM means you don’t even get to talk to friends about having a hard day because it’s offensive to your DH???!!?? WTF people! Women who stay home to take care of their children are human beings. They’re not robots or indentured servants either - they are a member of the family. [/quote]
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