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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't rock my kid's world with a divorce right now. I keep reading about things related to lifelong issues that come from the anxiety of growing up during the Great Depression and how their parents handled it. I'd give it 6 months and see if everything improves now that she's dead.[/quote]

Op here. Good point about the kids. They’re little so not fully sure how they are processing this all.[/quote]

Something else to keep in mind is that your husband could find a new person to fill the void left by his aunt - maybe in the form of a horrible stepmom for your children? He was easily manipulated into letting someone (aunt) treat someone he loved very poorly (you.) I wouldn’t be surprised if he falls into the same pattern with a new girlfriend/wife except your children are going to be new targets.

Take some time. It’s for you as much as for him. 
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OP here. This is really spot on. He is such a selfish imbecile that I could see him letting a new woman mistreat our kids as long as she is treating him well.[/quote]

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