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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hurt, angry, unappreciated, unattractive. Need I say more?[/quote]
Stop farting and burping and grabbing your nuts like you’re alone. Try making love to her instead of just pouncing. Take her out. Give her time to make herself feel attractive. Talk to her like you’re not always right. Stop making her do 100% of the emotional labor. 
Yes, women tire of their husbands. You need to be playful and give her imagination space so she can be motivated to have sex with you again. Sorry but this is the truth. 
She has responsibilities too. She needs to pull her weight without complaint, tell you you’re sexy, flirt, do thoughtful things. Just thought you’d want the woman’s perspective too. [/quote]

Oh, did you forget to read the fine print in the marriage contract that says you, the dancing monkey, will have to dance faster and faster and faster as her interest inexorably declines? Too bad for you. Now dance, monkry, dance![/quote]

Does taking your wife out sometimes and watching your own children for a few minutes while she makes herself attractive really make you feel like a dancing monkey?  
What did you think your life would be like when you got married and had children?  Did you think it would be exactly the same as being alone except that you now have a clean home, cooked meals, nightly sex, and double the income?  You never thought she would want anything in return?  Not even that you recognize her existence and don’t fart in front of her?  [/quote]

What are you talking about? Maybe start your own thread? OP asked men what they feel when they get turned down. OP did not ask about you and your martyrdom. You seem to hate your husband and your life. These are all things you chose. You are not a princess and the world does not revolve around you. I know this is hard but think about someone else besides yourself.[/quote]

I don’t hate my life.  I am just puzzled by the “dancing monkey” comment.  And now the princess thing.  
The pp’s list all seems totally normal.

Does everything your wife asks you to do make you feel like a dancing monkey?  [/quote]

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