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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also she’s an incredible hoarder. [b] I mean I’m sentimental and keep some random stuff [/b]but we have MOUNTAINS of things we will never use. We keep everything because “someday” we might need it or she might want to return to it. Furniture, fabric, supplies, crafts from years and years ago, old toys, mountains of clothes, etc. House is a cluttered mess and I’m numb to it. I wish I could afford a therapist. [/quote] No offense dude, but you’re not sentimental if you threw away all your pictures of your kids. Not even a little. [/quote] To clarify it was any pic with the ex in it. Ironically I saved all sorts of things - kids books, notes, cards, schoolwork - and the ex didn’t. I feel like this must be Stockholm Syndrome or something. [/quote] Op, what you are feeling is self pity. Call the nami hotline. Send your biological kids and first wife notes of apology letting your kids know you’re going to try better in the future. Watch til debt to us part on amazon or YouTube and stay off dcum for a while. You are in a wallowing spiral and you need to take small, concrete actions to break the cycle. [/quote]
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