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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you and your first wife divorce?[/quote] In hindsight I think I was depressed and that my judgement was starting to slip. We were having some issues connecting, being on the same page with finances, she needed more of my time than I had to give, things like that. In the clarity of hindsight probably nothing we could not have worked through, warts and all. I should have been a better leader and should have been more active in the finances. Ironically now I am 100 times worse off. I am also hearing the comments loud and clear about owning this. I am trying to be open and honest with myself and with DCUM in order to get clarity. My judgement IS shit. My health and cognitive issues ARE shit. Part of the problem is extricating myself when I have no resources to do so, to support her without making her totally homeless which makes me a brute, and all in the midst of an economic/global health crisis. [/quote]
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