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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has a conversation with me that sounded so much like this. I had to read comments because I was like Hmm. The difference is we DO have sex even if it’s 2-3 a month. So it’s not sexless. We have an age gap. I’m usually exhausted and he doesn’t try any foreplay. His idea of foredolay is just a finger. Zero romance or putting in time.

So my question to you-

Is it really sexless?
Are you romantic?
If she’s too tired to have an affair, what have you done to relieve her of it?

Without knowing full details, hard to say. Little kid years are tough. We were amazing before kids and I’m tired and ready to sleep. [/quote]

PP DH here:  I appreciate your honesty, but you sound like a DW who may go forward with your marriage and not initiate sex basically ever.[/quote]

Ok now you definitely sound like my husband. Is keeping a tally of who initiates that important? I mean if you are getting regular sex twice a week? Really?? And that’s enough to walk away. I met if you tried like before and gave it time she would initiate. At least I would. But before my husband gives me a chance he starts bitching again and turns me off. [/quote]

If someone literally never initiates and sex is infrequent, isn’t that proof of a loss of desire?  Good people don’t knowingly/continually have sex with partners who have zero/negative desire for sex.[/quote]

What’s literally? I mean if you’re my DH, you had a parent loss, crazy work schedule traveling 7 times a week. It is YOUR interpretation of events that I treat your touches that way. That’s how YOU make ME feel. I don’t say stop touching me-which you do.  If your my husband the insensitive thing is to be thinking of divorce in a pandemic while I’m freaking sick with possibly COVID. ladies and gentlemen this is why his wife doesn’t initiate. It’s not romantic it’s actually childish. [/quote]

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