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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I'm going against the grain but I would absolutely tell her I was disappointed she didn't attend and that we don't know how many birthdays grandma has left, and see what her response is.  And I would expect my mother would do the same thing if I made the choice your daughter did.  We are a "tell it like it is" family although we say our peace respectfully and don't nag or carry on.[/quote]

Np. If you were my mom and "told it like it was" then I would probably skip more events.  If you nag or try to make someone guilty than they might not want to be in your company.  I'm sure the dd can and will see grandma another day.  I think the older generation can use that "her last birthday card" for years and at some point it gets tiresome.[/quote]

We are a close knit family so I'm going to go with what works.

Also I think you read my post wrong, I said we don't nag.[/quote]

But by mentioning it you are nagging![/quote]

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