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[quote=Anonymous]There's already a lot of good advice here, so I don't have that much more to add. But I do want to emphasize that you need to largely abandon your "type." Clearly your type isn't working for you. It took me quite a long while to realize that my type is garbage. I thought the world of them, but they made me think less of myself. I basically gave up and instead focused on myself. When I finally met a guy who made me feel respected and valuable, I was apprehensive because he wasn't "my type." I was vacationing alone while thinking about it, and it was clear to me that I was being a Dumb Ass Bitch of the highest order. When I got home, I accepted another date with they guy who wasn't my type and we're celebrating a year this month. But it did require a big shift in what I considered valuable. When you start putting yourself first, you're more likely to attract people who will also put you first. So be your own #1. Spoil yourself. Don't try too hard to be agreeable or likeable. Be a version of yourself that scares off the weak and invites only those with the guts to take you seriously. You'll enjoy yourself more and get closer to attracting the person you actually deserve.

Good luck!  [/quote]

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