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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Middle-aged female here. I’ve never had a serious relationship of total exclusivity. I’ve casually dated people, but no commitment. I’ve never had an issue finding a FWB. I’m not ultra pretty, but I’m not ugly either. I’m educated, mannerly, good job, outgoing and pretty laidback. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong to always give the impression that I’m the FWB or hook-up girl. Every man I meet and am attracted to, it turns into that. And I’m not sleeping with some of them on the first date. The ones I am really interested in, I wait. I really would like to be in a relationship with someone, not a casual fling or non-exclusive relationship.

Men - can you help me understand what traits you all observe from a female that would dictate relationship material vs. casual dating/sex?[/quote]
OP have you ever once tried asking the men you've been involved with as a FWB or a hook-up girl this question?  [b]WHY AM I NOT DATING MATERIAL?[/b]
I'm sure you have asked at some time or another.  What were their responses?  Whatever they said whether "I'm just not interested in settling down" or "I see you as a friend" or "Your laugh is awful and I couldn't be with someone who guffaws like that." - whatever their comments were they hold far more insight into what the problem is AND those guys have a lot more credibility when it comes to expertise about this matter regarding your lack of relationship-appeal than that of anonymous strangers on social media because those guys were actually involved with you.[/quote]

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