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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds natural. You are taking care of his family and he treats you well, is attractive... for this reason it’s a very common basis for romantic feelings developing. He probably has the same fears as you because no one wants to lose their nanny. Is it because he’s leaving that you don’t want to go there? No other reason this couldn’t end in a long term relationship given you are both late 30s.[/quote]

First I have to say I was expecting something steamy when I read the title.
 
I'm not sure how to read dad/boss.

1. He's confused.  He sees his kids happy and comfortable with OP. It seems OP has created a loving environment. OP doesn't say how long he's been widowed, but his brain might be playing tricks on him. With OP the house is starting to feel like home and family again and triggered romantic feelings. Feelings that are likely more rebound than genuine.

2. He's a man. A seemingly busy man, but still a man who may not have had sex in a long time. OP is an easy target. He was testing her with the kiss. Had she been agreeable they could have slept together.

3. He's simply lonely.

4. He genuinely likes OP, but is just as confused as she is how to go about it because their situation is a little complex. I know OP says she hasn't flirted. But maybe there have been subtle signs of interest. I mean he kissed her. In this day and age, I don't think I man would risk that if he didn't think it would be met favorably.  He also seems to enjoy her company. I don't think asking her to stay for dinner has been all about the kids or good manners. He enjoys being around her too.

I'm learning towards option 2, but could be wrong. It seems OP is unwilling to explore,so it's water under the bridge now anyway.[/quote]

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