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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Propose to him. If he wants to marry you he will say yes. If not, he will say no.[/quote]
bad advice. The guy might just say yes just because it's an easy out.  No way... make him show that he wants a life with OP, and not just stringing her along.[/quote]

Every single guy who proposes also has to deal with this possibility - that the woman is just saying yes because it is an easy out.

No one is stringing anyone along. Both people choose to be in the relationship or end it. Women have autonomy to make their own decisions.[/quote]

I think the point is that it's not great to propose as a way to save a relationship, as opposed to because you are really happy and want to make it permanent. Don't get married because the other option is breaking up. Get married because this is a relationship that works and you want to keep it going.

It's like having a baby to save a marriage, as opposed to having a baby because you want to raise a child in this loving home.
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