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[quote=Anonymous]I dated a guy like this.  It was frustrating and hard on me emotionally.  He was emotionally very closed off and completely incapable of physical affection.  (I knew a couple of other girls who had dated him and he was the same way with them.)  I finally gave up on him, though we kept going back and forth in a FWB thing for YEARS.

He ended up meeting some much younger (and let's face it hotter) woman, marrying her and having kids with her pretty much right away.  That stung. I kind of thought he would be single forever.  But I have to remind myself that he is probably like that with her too.  And it may be hard for her, but she, unlike me, actually has to wake up with him every day and parent with him.  Having a guy who could only show me the barest hints of affection would have worn on me over time.  I think if I'd married him, I would eventually have had an affair with the first guy who gave me a really good hug because I would have been so starved for affection.

Could you take a break from him and the relationship?  See if he misses  you and if it makes some things clearer to him?  Or see if you feel ok on your own, and realize that you are happier without him.  Good luck.[/quote]

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