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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds very rough, but Why did you marry someone like that?[/quote]

He started being like this in the last 2 years.  The first part of our marriage was not like this.  He was not the neatest person in the world but he would clean up after himself and do regular cleaning up around the house.  His job has started to really stress him in the last two years and I believe its all related; however, he will not look for another job.[/quote]

I was about to say hunt for an ADD advocacy organization and use them as a referral for counseling but it sounds like this other stuff is the real problem and spilling over into his ability to handle the ADD stuff, making that stuff worse. So I'd say just counseling, period. Maybe he's anxious about his health and in a spiral between the job and the health aspects? Either way, the entire burden of all this can't fall on you. And if he also feels he's carrying a lot of burden as well, then basically something needs to give to lessen the entire load. [/quote]

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