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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Had a nice party at our house for our daughter’s birthday. Asked DH to take the kids out for lunch so I could get the house ready. He went out and picked up lunch for himself, only bringing our youngest after I made him. Proceeded to eat in the middle of everything as I was getting ready. Party is a success, kids and parents eating, drinking and having a good time. I ask DH to get the piñata and hold it - he proceeds to try to hang it from a tree and I tell him not to. He gives up and I end up asking 2 other parents to hold it instead. I keep the food going. I clean up the party. DH just talks and invites a friend over. I ask him to put the kids to bed afterward because I’m exhausted. It takes me asking multiple times and getting really angry before he does it.

What am I doing wrong? Can our marriage be saved? [/quote]

Sounds like my wife, who is the laziest thing I've ever had any sort of relationship with.

Weekend:
- sleeps until 10-10:30
- languidly drinks coffee and flips through phone until 12-1
- leaves coffee mug in sink
- does some sort of exercise video (not lazy there!)
- makes herself lunch, leaving dishes in sink and counter grubby
- naps

It would *never* occur to her to tidy up the house, much less pick up after herself. And it would never occur to her that, as a parent, maybe she should do things  with our kids.

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What good is she? Good sex? Brings home good money at least??[/quote]

No and no.

Truthfully? I don't want my kids to have a broken home and for me to see less of them. That's pretty much it.[/quote]

Either she was always like that and you went for it for whatever reason or you were a bad judge of character and it's too late now.[/quote]

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