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Reply to "Therapist Won't Condemn my Partner's Affair."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you looked at a site like surviving infidelity.com? Based on the experience of many, many people who have been in your situation, going to couples therapy at this stage is pointless. Your partner needs individual counseling to figure out why he thought it was ok to cheat/why he has weak boundaries. The affair is his problem, not a marital problem. That doesn't mean that there aren't issues in your relationship that need to be addressed, but before that can happen he needs to figure out his own issues. Affairs are never, ever the fault of the betrayed partner. You were both in the same relationship, and you didn't choose to cheat. You may also need therapy, to deal with your own feelings about the cheating.[/quote] This[/quote]
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