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[quote=Anonymous]I have a DH like this. Early on in the relationship, i found that sending a long email worked a lot better than saying things to him in person. It gave him time to read, think about, and then respond, and it gave me a sense that he really internalized what I had to say. Over time, though, it became less important to me that he understood me, and I actually like having the privacy of my own feelings. If something he does bothers me, I either try to figure out why and let it go, or I ask him calmly not to do it, without delving into my feelings about it. He is a laid-back guy and is happy to oblige. So, my advice is to reframe your thinking about what you need from him. Love and understanding of your feelings aren't necessarily the same two things. [/quote]
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