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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. We have made it a priority to put our marriage first. We have a 4-month-old baby and are going to trying for a second child soon by the first year. We don't neglect him, but we have done things to benefit our marriage - early bedtime, a schedule, sleeping in his own crib, etc. We are all to spend 1-2 hours together most nights and we do a date night every week. We only go probably 2-3 times a month, but we do a date night in with some take out, wine, and a movie. We have sex most nights or every other day. If sex isn't on the table, I almost always give him oral sex. I think it helps that he is a 50/50 partner in parenting and running the household.  [/quote]

Sex every day or so plus oral will keep any man happy. [/quote]

+1. You sound amazing! [/quote]

she sounds like ... a mom to a single 4, easy 4-month old, who may have a different perspective in a few years. [/quote]

Or maybe not.  As a mom you can make your life a lot easier if you sleep train and have your baby on a schedule.  A mom who prioritizes this will most likely also do things to continue having a well run household as their baby gets older.

There are many moms I know who don’t DO things that would make their life easier.  This continues as their kids age.  They don’t create boundaries, wait for ages to potty train, don’t sleep train, allow their husbands not to coparent etc.  [/quote]

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