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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t believe how nice everyone is being to this. why do you feel entitled to his money anyway?  You’ve been married 8 years, sounds like he had money before you met, He’s been supporting you and you’ve lived a good life.  So now he’s a jerk, and you want half his stuff?  What makes you so special?  Grow up OP and start taking care of yourself.  If he wants to give you gifts, fine.  Get a job and start saving some cash.  [/quote]

Not the case at all. He’s worth millions and the house is a small part of his assets. The fact I found the house and now spending countless hrs decorating, not to mention him telling me we wld both wld be on the deed is what’s upsetting.  I wldnt have any rights to it in event of divorce, (with prenup which I’m fine with), but the fact that if let’s say I’m in my 70s and he passes, I wld have to move out and it goes to his one grown child (who already gets everything he’s worth). It’s just really hard now to  put so much time and effort into this home and live there now. I wish I cld live in the present and not think of the future so much . Must be a vajayjay thing.  I’m going to a vocational school and I am going to get a decent paying job. And I’m not a foreigner..   And the email he forwarded was from my attorney to his as far as how I wanted the house set up in our names when he decided to put my name on the deed after I got upset bout it, but apparently it wasn’t to his liking ( too“demanding”). [b]Originally he told me if he preceded  me I cld live there till I die and half wld go back to his estate and half to my estate. Which I was happy with .. But when I received email from his attorney it changed to house wld be sold asap and I wld get half .[/b]  I just hate liars!  But the worse part is the fact that he shut down my credit cards the next day after this big fight and won’t let me get my own credit card. He turned it back on the next day but I feel so disrespected and vulnerable now.  So yes I will now be really looking out for my future and doing everything I can to build a nest egg, and keep my mouth shut with all the advice I’ve gotten here.  That way the next time he threatens me with divorce, I can say,  you got it !![/quote]

Why would you need some of the money from the house going to your "estate" after you die? You came into the marriage with zero assets and have never worked. He has grown children. If I were him, I would not agree to this either, it is totally unreasonable.

If you don't want to move out of the house if he passes before you, just request that and don't get greedy and demand that half of the house go to your "estate" after you also pass. Based on what you describe, it doesn't sound like he would object to your living in the house for the remainder of your years as long as it goes to his children, as it should, after you die.

Listen lady, you took up with this man in your 50's and you had no assets and no skills and have not worked in 8 years. I am pleased to see this man is rightfully putting his children above you in this situation. You really don't deserve anything. [/quote]

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